The 17-second rule is a parenting technique designed to help children develop resilience and self-confidence by allowing them to engage in risky play without immediate intervention.
What Is the 17-Second Rule?
- When a child engages in risky play (such as climbing a tree or riding a bike down a steep hill), parents are encouraged to wait 17 seconds before stepping in.
- This brief pause allows children to assess risks independently, make decisions, and build confidence in their abilities.
Why Is Risky Play Important?
- Helps children develop problem-solving skills and decision-making abilities.
- Encourages physical coordination and self-awareness.
- Builds resilience by allowing kids to experience challenges and overcome them.
- Teaches children to evaluate risks rather than rely on constant parental supervision.
Examples of Risky Play
- Climbing trees or playground structures.
- Running at high speeds or jumping from heights.
- Using tools (like hammers or knives) in supervised environments.
- Exploring nature, such as wandering in the woods or playing near water.
How Parents Can Apply the Rule
- Instead of immediately saying “Be careful!”, observe for 17 seconds.
- If the child is in real danger, step in—but if they are simply exploring, let them continue.
- Encourage safe risk-taking by discussing potential hazards and solutions.
More Information on the 17 Second Rule
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